Dating white men vs black men

So now what have we learned, after looking at what both groups of men have to offer, in an age where “reputation and finances” dominate the dating scene?

We see that the black man is far from a desired choice for any of today’s modern women.

They smoked weed in their parents’ houses with abandon. If they wanted me, I thought, it was because I seemed free like them. Since college I’ve had five boyfriends, and all of them have been white. They’re no longer the object of my affection, a mirror for my self-worth, or an affirmation of my beauty. The night Trump was elected, I wrote about feeling lonely.

I wanted to be comforted — but I wanted it to be by someone who had an inkling of the anxiety I felt for my family, my loved ones, and for myself.

He’s also bringing over a bottle of wine for Auntie Tamika to add to the punch. White men aren’t bothered by my lack of restrictions in the bedroom. It is a bonding experience designed for pleasure and growth. Check out white twitter during 9-5…CRICKETS, People!!!! White men have no problem giving their women gifts.

But suggesting any position in the bedroom to a Black man leads to accusations of unfaithfulness and them questioning whether they have entered a relationship with a hoe. I’ve known this white dude for 4 days, and managed to get a bouquet of exotic flowers, an edible arrangement and a $200 date.

Whenever I’m standing on a subway platform, I play this game: I hover near a person I think is cute and try to slowly make my way over to him so we get in the same car. Like most of the girls in my class, I wanted attention from the boys.

When we do, I look his way every so often to see if he’s staring back, to see if we’ve got what my best friend and I call “the affinity,” a mutual acknowledgement that we one another. But while they chased after blondes and brunettes, I was ignored.

A Black guy will buy you lingerie for Christmas and get mad when you’re not excited.

I’m not saying that material things are important, but it’s MANY Black men out here that won’t loan their “Woman” til her next payday because it’s be deemed as “tricking”. White men act like they have some good gotdamn sense. Ever got some head from a suburban boy with full lips and an appetite for days???

Men who in less than 600 years took America from nothing and built it into a world superpower.

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