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Yet many of them are victims of this community, which promises paradise -- but for many, becomes a hell on earth.

It's a community that presumes to have a say in who its young people marry.

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"This is our big family reunion," says Michael Krenzer, a spokesman for the Jehovah's Witnesses in Dortmund.

And since the family must expand, "many Witnesses naturally meet their future spouses here," says Uwe Langhals, another spokesman, who has been a Jehovah's Witness since he was 15.

They hold their Bible in front of them like a silver tray: the word of Jehovah. There are passages explaining why nicotine is forbidden but a glass of wine at the end of the day permitted, why blood transfusions are to be avoided and why non-believers must be converted. They don't mention that the Protestant church has described the translation of the Bible used by Jehovah's Witnesses as inaccurate and uncritical.

Throughout the meeting, Bible passages are discussed at length and hymns are sung.

At age 18, he moved out and hasn't been back since.

Because he chose freedom and his current girlfriend, he is "essentially parentless," he says.

No Masturbation, No Homosexuals Like many young Jehovah's Witnesses, Melanie has read a glossy pamphlet entitled "Questions Young People Ask: Answers That Work." It makes it clear that homosexuality is forbidden and masturbation demonized.

The pamphlet, Melanie says, contains a lot of information on topics she is familiar with: what it's like to feel like an outsider at school, or to have false desires "for sex or self-gratification." The pamphlet also includes a chapter on how a young Jehovah's Witness can determine if a potential partner is right for him or her.

They arrive in caravans, bringing Tupperware, coolers, blankets and, most importantly, their Bibles.

Here they can pray among peers, feeling a sense of community instead of isolation.

Having doubts about his faith, the oldest son stayed home.

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